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Ronin Has Passed #343735
03/20/17 06:06 PM
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I had hoped to never write this but I wanted to let you know that Ronin has passed away. He was put to sleep this morning after suffering seizures due to a brain tumor. He was 15 months and the best thing that has happend to me in the past year. We gave him the best possible last few days we possibly could with his favorite things and foods that he loved. We took him to his favorite places and let him play on the beach. I know he is no longer in pain now and for that I am grateful. I'll forever love and miss my Ronin (aka Stink Butt). Thank you to everyone for your advice and help when I asked for it. #RIP Ronin.


I am your friend,your partner,your defender your dog. You are my life, my leader. I will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of my heart- I Am The German Shepherd-Anonymous
My blog: http://emilygoguen0.wixsite.com/ronin
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: emilyL] #343736
03/20/17 07:57 PM
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Emily,

I can't believe this. I am so terribly sorry that you had to let Ronin go so very soon.

You have my real sympathy for your loss.

Mary Jane

Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Mary Jane] #343737
03/20/17 08:21 PM
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I was shocked when I read your post. I'm so deeply sorry, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you. hugging Please accept my sincere condolences. RIP sweet angel. angel


Sean - 1998/2014
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart I'll stay there forever.
Carleton DOB unknown
Neely - 2003/2015
Gizmo -2008/2011
Neeko -1991/2005
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: emilyL] #343738
03/20/17 08:46 PM
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I am so sorry to read of your sudden loss of Ronin. My heart is with you during this sad time.


Bonnie

With approval of my friends:

SamCat, 03/2011
Bennie the 12 1/2% GSD 02/2013

Seiko, Solo, Sophie, Skye and Buddy - bridge dogs who taught me so much
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: PositiveDog] #343739
03/20/17 09:45 PM
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Our deepest sympathy to you.

He certainly sounds like a super dog.

All we can do is urge you to remember the good times you had with him and all the joy of him!

Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Codmaster] #343741
03/20/17 11:29 PM
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I was shocked to read your post. My deepest sympathy for your loss.


Johanna

Caleb (aka Caleb-Moose)
Ciara(aka Ciara Belle, Black Devil)

RIP Aodhán, Rica, Max, Kelly - gone but never forgotten - forever in my heart
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Woodreb] #343742
03/20/17 11:33 PM
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I'm so sorry for your hurt!


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Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: zyp] #343744
03/21/17 12:22 AM
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Emily, I'm so very, very sorry. My deepest compassion on such an unexpected loss. I'm wishing you strength.


Patti
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Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Braverhund] #343745
03/21/17 01:02 AM
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I can not imagine the shock and pain you are going through. Some times life is just so unfair. RIP Ronin.


Val da Tiger

Fuzzybutt the cat.
Neilla the Big White puppy.

RIP Cheyenne - AKA: Digger, CheyChey Girl, Cheyenne Large and In charge. 2/16/02 - 2/27/16
RIP Raya - AKA: Raz-a, Ray a Sunshine, RayBestos, the little one, Silly Girl. 9/21/05 - 6/27/14
RIP Lakota - AKA: Bubba, Big Boy, BooBoo (the other part of the Binky and BooBoo team). 1/19/03-9/19/2011
RIP DeeDee - AKA: DD Poo, Little Bit, Binky (part of the Binky and Booboo team) 6/23/02-6/20/11
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Wisc.Tiger_Val] #343746
03/21/17 01:15 PM
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I am so terribly sorry! My heart hurts for you.


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Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: Sylv] #343754
03/22/17 03:23 AM
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Oh my gosh, how devastating. I'm so very sorry.


MaxaL (aka LisaT)

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Max, 5/2001-2/2012, RIP my partner, my Regal Boy
Indy, 5/1997-10/2010, RIP my friend, my teacher

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Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: MaxaLisa] #343756
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Emily , I am so sorry. This is the last thing I would have expected. You were doing so well with him, you gave him such a great life. You were so receptive to the ideas the group offered. A dog could not have had a better home.

Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: middleofnowhere] #343758
03/22/17 09:59 PM
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Thank you everyone. I'm sorry I am so slow at answering back, but it's been a bit of a rough the past couple of days but I have come to accept that this was the best decision we could have made for Ronin. I wanted to explain a bit of why this was happening. We started to realize something was wrong in the past few months because Ronin's training was slipping and he was becoming severely aggressive towards men and other dogs and also towards myself and my husband at times. We already had a few issues with that but we found a great trainer and he helped us get back on track for a while. Ronin was no longer listening, he was getting kind of lazy about things, and if he even heard a man's voice he would start to go crazy. One day he bite me hard on the thigh for telling him no he couldn't go play with another dog. We had no idea why. Then last week, I took him outside and put him on the long line in our backyard because he had a slight injury to his back leg from slipping on ice, but the vet said that was okay for a few minutes to he could do his business, so I left him for a minute to go and check on some water pooling by our house (we were having a lot of water issues). Next thing I know, Ronin starts barking like crazy, and he broke the line, jumped our 5ft gate (which was closed) knocking me to the ground so I hit my head on the stone walkway we have, and raced towards the end of the driveway. He would not come back.

My neighbor heard me and came to help. Long story short, Ronin reacted like I have never seen him before. He knew the neighbor and loved him. Next thing I know, he snarled with spit flying, grabbed him by the arm and started shaking him. I yelled and he finally did let go. I was lucky he only got the man by the coat and did not touch skin. But when Ronin let go, he ran towards another neighbor, and when I called him again, he rounded on me, snarling and coming at me. His eyes were wild, and his head was twitching like I had never seen. Yes he had had seizures, but nothing like this. He didn't know who I was. He all of a sudden came out of it, let out a cry that was sharp and so very painful, and ran away from me. I found him cowering in another woman's yard, terrified and shaking. I got him home and called the vet. We found out later on that weekend about the brain tumor. This all happened last Wednesday.

Due to the fact he went after my neighbor, who will sue you six ways to Sunday for just looking at them wrong, they insisted that we put him down. We looked at rehoming him and were successful at finding someone(this was before we found out about the tumor) and we had consulted a behaviorist, but they were filing a complaint with the police so we were running out of time to do what was best for him. Ronin was in pain and it was obvious. The vet suggested that we very strongly consider putting him to sleep after something that severe. That was not going to get better, there was nothing surgically they could do, and our vet said that he was going end up hurting us or someone else if we left the decision too long. We made the difficult decision that it was not fair for him to suffer, and he was very much suffering. We did everything we could to make his last day with us the best he had ever had. We gave him a huge juicy meaty bone, we walked and played and did everything we could to make him comfortable despite being horribly sick (vomiting, diarrhea, lethargy, seizures) and kissed and hugged him so he knew how much we loved him.

We took him to the vet Monday morning, and we cried the entire way there. But Ronin had a seizure, a violent seizure while there that required four people (myself and husband included) to hold him down until it passed because he would have fallen off the table, and when he finally went to sleep he looked at me and I knew he was finally pain free. He burrowed close to me, I held him and kissed him goodbye. I will never love another dog the way I did him.

I hope that no one thinks that what we did was selfish. I had someone tell me that, that I did not give him a chance, but we had to go by the vets recommendation and the look that Ronin was giving me. I am not looking for someone to say yes, we did the right thing or no we did not. I just wanted him to be at peace and no longer in pain.

I am getting a tattoo of his paw print and name on my shoulder (my first tattoo) to always have a piece of him with me. We have also found out that the other pups in his litter suffered the same fate. All have been put to sleep due to illnesses and tumors. It was bad breeding, but we gave him everything we could to give him the best life we could. I will always miss my boy. I am just glad that I had him for as long as we did.


I am your friend,your partner,your defender your dog. You are my life, my leader. I will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of my heart- I Am The German Shepherd-Anonymous
My blog: http://emilygoguen0.wixsite.com/ronin
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: emilyL] #343759
03/23/17 12:36 AM
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Emily, there was no question in my mind that you were doing what was best for Ronin.

With the Tumor diagnosis, increased seizure activity, the attacking your neighbor and you, there wasn't much of a choice. Ronin wasn't your loving Ronin anymore the tumor had or was destroying his brain. Keeping him alive would have cruel and dangerous for you and others.

Of course you will never love another dog as much as Ronin. First because he was your first GSD and second each dog is different so your love for them will be different.


Val da Tiger

Fuzzybutt the cat.
Neilla the Big White puppy.

RIP Cheyenne - AKA: Digger, CheyChey Girl, Cheyenne Large and In charge. 2/16/02 - 2/27/16
RIP Raya - AKA: Raz-a, Ray a Sunshine, RayBestos, the little one, Silly Girl. 9/21/05 - 6/27/14
RIP Lakota - AKA: Bubba, Big Boy, BooBoo (the other part of the Binky and BooBoo team). 1/19/03-9/19/2011
RIP DeeDee - AKA: DD Poo, Little Bit, Binky (part of the Binky and Booboo team) 6/23/02-6/20/11
Re: Ronin Has Passed [Re: emilyL] #343760
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Originally Posted By: emilyL
We took him to the vet Monday morning, and we cried the entire way there. But Ronin had a seizure, a violent seizure while there that required four people (myself and husband included) to hold him down until it passed because he would have fallen off the table, and when he finally went to sleep he looked at me and I knew he was finally pain free. He burrowed close to me, I held him and kissed him goodbye. I will never love another dog the way I did him.


teary I'm so terribly sorry for your DH and you. RIP dear sweet angel.

Last edited by SeanRescueMom; 03/23/17 01:01 AM.

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If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart I'll stay there forever.
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Gizmo -2008/2011
Neeko -1991/2005
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