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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283222
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congrats this is wonderful that you have found your new companion. I am ure that Chasma must have had a hand in this, I know indy had a hand in bringing jazz here. What an adventure that is in store for you, great to have the week off!


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283237
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Annie, warmest, heartfelt congratulations to you-- and to lovely Smudge! hugging It is good that you are being gentle with yourself as you are yet grieving Chamsa, and surely there can never be a replacement-- but I am sure bold Chamsa helped in nudging her successor in your direction, knowing that you both need eachother. Smudge, and Annie, both need healing and joy in life. bloomrose It will only get better from here, for both you and Smudge! By the way, with her gorgeous big head and stunning bone and dark coloration, doesn't she look a bit Czech? Her write-up suggests that she's eager to please and intelligent, a really bright girl. I envision you both enjoying many wonderful adventures together in your future! vaseroses


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283243
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Originally Posted By: anniej
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I am really looking forward to welcoming a new friend into my life


Hurrah! I do hope that you and Smudge are very happy building a new life together

Originally Posted By: anniej
but am conscious that the pain i am experiencing around Chasma will not disappear and I would not want it to....


Wolf taught me so many things that have made Mars' life with us much easier, but Mars will never be Wolf and many people might say Mars is lucky in that. No matter, Chamsa's gifts are yours forever and Smudge may be one of those gifts.

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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: Mary Jane] #283266
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Smudge is lovely! And I like her name too. I know you will be happy with her. I think Chmas will be happy knowing Smudge has a new mom to love her too.


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: Kayos] #283274
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She is listed here (at least for now), she sound like such a nice girl!
http://www.ukgermanshepherdrescue.co.uk/german-shepherd-rescue-dogs-for-adoption-page7.htm


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: MaxaLisa] #283311
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Thank you everyone - i just spoke to her foster mom who adores her! She came to her with a big chain and no training having been locked in a tiny kitchen for most of her life. However, despite that she is loved by everyone in the village, and is great with other dogs and children. She does need training and her recall is poor but all fixable over time.

When i first thought about getting a rescue I decided I wanted a break from health problems - so my short list was healthy dogs. Smudges profile said a small amount of ear wax. However, when i got a call from the coordinator today she told me she had bad news about smudge - that she was on steriods for severe skin allergies! She was surprised when i said off course I would take her- i i was smiling to myself because I now know exactly why we have found each other.

So Saturday is the big day - i know Chamsa will be with me as we bring a new friend into our life - thank you all for your warm and caring thoughts and words they have helped me so much over the last month. I will keep you all updated

Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283329
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I just looked her up! Looking at her brought back long-lost fond memories of my neighbor's dog, Sheba, from when I was a kid. I hope it works out for you!


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: BasiaBear] #283331
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Oh, and I just read your last post... from the little bit that I know of you, I'd have to guess it was meant to be and you are precisely what Smudge needs in her life wub


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283354
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Originally Posted By: anniej
When i first thought about getting a rescue I decided I wanted a break from health problems - so my short list was healthy dogs. Smudges profile said a small amount of ear wax. However, when i got a call from the coordinator today she told me she had bad news about smudge - that she was on steriods for severe skin allergies! She was surprised when i said off course I would take her- i i was smiling to myself because I now know exactly why we have found each other.

Had to laugh at this...it's the same process as here with Jazz. All I wanted was a healthy dog. For once. Wasn't meant to be.

I am so glad that she will be with you Annie. I bet you can't wait for the big day!


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: MaxaLisa] #283366
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Congrats Annie, I looked her up and she is a lovely looking girl.. I wish you much joy and love as you begin your lives together and help one another heal.

Will now sit and wait for photos smile

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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: Shepherds] #283614
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Well - she is here....! I picked her up from a broken hearted foster mom on Saturday morning. She is a big bear of a dog (will post photographs later)not at all like the photographs on the rescue site.

Foster mom had highlighted a number of issues - doesnt like the car and whines a lot and has major seperation anxiety. She does not like being confined in small spaces as she was locked in a small kitchen.

She was really good in the car considering we had a long four hour journey - whined a little but really was ok.

So beautiful as she is - she does have some issues which I could do with some advice on:

Food guarding - growled at me when i went near her food while she was eating

Toy guarding - her energy shifts and she becomes possive and runs away

Seperation anxiety - panics every time i go near the front door and when i left her to get something from the car she started barking and throwing herself at the front door.

While i know in principle what to do about these issues I would appreciate some advice. Would you introduce her to a crate given her issues with small spaces?

We have had a really quite day and will continue to have a quite week. I cant bring myself to stay in for a whole week - but our walk was short and very quite - she walks lovely on a halti and showed no aggression towards the couple of dogs we met.

I am so very happy to have her in my life - i am sure it will be quite a learning journey.

Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283674
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groovy yay, she's home.

...And wow! sounds like she does come with some issues that have to be worked out...

I didn't stay in for the whole week either, but I did follow the general rule where I didn't push jazz, and was just in tune to the signals that were being sent. I think you will get a sense of that.

Pardon me for saying this, but I think it's unethical for a rescue to end out a dog with major SA without fulling warning you and talking with you about it. I speak from my own experience here. My hope is that once he is in a safe and secure environment (from her point of view), that that will relax and fade away.

When Max first came, he guarded his food. I didn't try to do anything about it until I had a relationship built with him otherwise. I see the food issue and the toy guarding similarly, and think that they will both get better as the relationship gets better. This is where I wish Jean had time to post here to help frown

The SA. The crate. I would never close a crate door on her until this is better under control. SA dogs like to feel like they have some control over their environment and forced separation is really bad for them. I would first make the crate a safe place where good things are asociated with it (open door always), and would not even attempt to close the door until you can go out of her site without signs of panic. Karen Overall has a relaxation technique that is probably pretty helpful here, and I will try to find it later.

How old is she again? How long was he in foster care? Were their other dogs in the household?


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: MaxaLisa] #283708
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Thanks Lisa thats really helpful and confirms my instincts. She was in foster for six weeks with no other dogs but two small grandchildren. The lady really loved her so i suspect all her issues are worse because she had to leave that home where she felt really safe. I have borrowed some childrens safety gates so i can leave a room without her but she can stil see me at all times and this seemed to work yesterday.

I was told she was four years old but my instinct is she is younger - i am taking her for a vet check at the end of the week. We have an appointment for accupuncture in two weeks to try and get her off steriods. She is such a gentle soul - very different from my wild child Chamsa - although she reacts in the same way to cats( dream of getting a cat one day dies again:)

Right another day begins...

Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283744
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Looking forward to updates on her. Any pictures yet? hint hint


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283750
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So, she pent a lot of time isolate in her original home, and then 6 weeks I just enough time to get really settled. Makes sense. That she is okay behind the gates is extremely encouraging. I did that with jazz and this little 12 pound pup scaled a 3 foot xpen to jump out out of fear.

They recommend, for SA, teaching a "safety phrase" that you use when you will return quickly. I did this with indy, but never realized it. I used "right back" when it was just a short trip, say to the car to get something, and "it'll be awhile" when I was leaving for the day. I know she understood it. Jazz knows the difference in those phrases when I'm in the kitchen fixing food smile , but not in the context of leaving yet, that is part of my summer project.

When you want to start leaving her site, you can maybe give her something of high value, like a filled kong, get her interested in it, and go out of sight, for only seconds at a time, to test how that will work.

I hope that you will be able to get her health straightened out too, without much trouble.


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: MaxaLisa] #283766
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Ok, I have dealt with all of the above.

1. I have a different approach to bringing a foster or new adoptee home. My approach is not to flood on the socialization front but to do plenty of walks, etc. in order to help bring down their anxiety level (always works for me!). This has been especially important for the dogs who came with extra baggage.

2. Rafi came to me with major SA. I started counter-conditioning as soon as I figured out what was going on. I followed Patricia McConnell's protocol. You can either download her little booklet, "I'll Be Home Soon" or find it somewhere on line. He had MAJOR panic attacks when crated and did damage to himself. I could have left him with the best treat in the world and the outcome was always the same. Consequently I have never crated him since. However, he does spend time alone in my truck and in other people's cars and is fine in there. And he is fine loose in the house, since I did the counter-conditioning. IN fact, I can leave him at anyone's house and he's a little anxious but nothing like he used to be.

I also used a DAP spray and lots of calming things. T-touch works really well, if you know it or you can look it up on the web. Using calming signals also help when she is anxious and you're right there. Rafi still prefers to follow me EVERYWHERE but I do tell him to stay a lot of the time because of the stress on his joints going up and down the stairs, etc.

3. I would leave her alone while eating but as she is settling in I would start tossing pieces of chicken or something yummy towards her bowl while she's eating. Same with toys, don't force the issue but see if you can start trading up: if you drop that toy you get this delicious treat. Make it a fun game. Rafi doesn't growl with a toy but he does run away with it. I don't really care though because it's not resource guarding for him as much as it is a game. Chama was a resource guarder and I made it worse by trying to force the issue instead of trading up.

Good luck! Looking forward to pictures!


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Kong is on my list of things to buy to tomorrow - she is extremely stressed by the car - i am guessing the only time she has been in one is when she has left a family. So i plan to do one small two minute journey to the park daily and gradually extend the journey time. I like the idea of the different phrases for different lengths of time - i will start doing that tomorrow.

Sorry about lack of photographs - tomorrow i will sort it out. forgot to mention that I have changed her name to Cara - which means friend in Irish - Chamsa meant friend in Setswana - so their is comfort in continuing the lineage. ( although she has been quickly nicknamed Cara Bear - because she is like so big and cuddly!)

She is so good on the lead that she is now off the head collar and walking really great on her harness. She is curious with other dogs - a bit of dominance was exhibited today with one dog but considering we came across about seven that was not bad and i am really please with her behaviour outside.

I am still struggling with the loss of Chamsa but I know Cara will help in the healing process. I dream of Chamsa nightly and she always comes running up to me playing with other dogs- so very happy and no longer in pain. Although it still hurts to wake up to her gone having Cara helps so much so despite all the wobbles its ok - time will heal both of us smile

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Re: the car--you might play a game where you open both doors and throw a treat in and let her get it and go out the other side. Keep doing that until she associates the car with the fun game, then the little trips, etc.


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: anniej] #283810
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Originally Posted By: anniej
I am still struggling with the loss of Chamsa but I know Cara will help in the healing process. I dream of Chamsa nightly and she always comes running up to me playing with other dogs- so very happy and no longer in pain. Although it still hurts to wake up to her gone having Cara helps so much so despite all the wobbles its ok - time will heal both of us smile

You are both on a healing journey hugging

It sounds like, overall, she is doing really well, considering everything.


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Re: New Journey starts today [Re: MaxaLisa] #283828
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Annie, you are amazing. hugging It does seem waking each morning is the hardest, doesn't it? Chamsa is surely as well as you see her in your dreams. Sweet Miss Cara and you, together, will help eachother heal and grow stronger. Together, you have a bright future full of shared adventures. I am betting that a year from now, you'll have found so very many wonderful ways that you and Cara truly "click." fetch


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